Essential Tips for Supporting Parents in Child Education and Well-Being

French family policies represented €122.1 billion in 2024, according to a joint report from the IGF and IGAS submitted in July 2026 to the Prime Minister. This colossal amount does not prevent a recurring observation: parents often find themselves alone facing daily educational choices, with public systems deemed poorly structured in their objectives.

Amid budget pressures, new obligations related to screens, and changes in family models, the framework in which parenting occurs is changing faster than the available references.

Parental control on screens: what the law mandates since 2024

Since July 13, 2024, all smartphones, tablets, computers, and consoles sold in France must offer a pre-installed and free parental control system, with activation suggested upon first use. This obligation stems from law no. 2022-300 of March 2, 2022, known as the Studer law, and its implementing decree.

This measure changes the game for families. Before this date, installing parental control was a voluntary, often technical process that many parents did not undertake. The fact that the system is offered upon powering on the device reduces this friction.

Parents who wish to deepen their understanding of current educational issues can rely on a parenting guide structured around these concrete questions.

However, the law does not solve everything. It applies to new devices sold in French territory, which excludes the second-hand market and devices purchased abroad. Activation remains optional: the parent can refuse it during the initial setup. And no parental control perfectly filters problematic content on social media or private messaging.

Father helping his son read an illustrated book at the kitchen table, a scene of parental support in children's education

Family budget under pressure: the savings considered by Bercy

The IGF-IGAS report from July 2026 proposes 10 efficiency measures aiming for €4.2 billion in savings over ten years on family policies, including €2.5 billion in the short term. None of these measures have yet been translated into law, but their existence in an official document submitted to the Prime Minister signals a clear budgetary direction.

This report emphasizes that family policies pursue “poorly structured” objectives with limited effects on birth rates. Specifically, the proposed avenues potentially affect direct financial aid and childcare options, two pillars of parental daily life.

What this means for families

The uncertainty lies less in a specific measure than in the general philosophy. Families cannot plan their organization if the rules change every two years. A parent relying on subsidized childcare to return to work needs medium-term visibility.

Field feedback varies on this point: some associative actors note that the most disadvantaged families are not even aware of existing aid, making the issue of budget cuts secondary to that of access to rights. The Childhood Council of the HCFEA has also identified access to rights, benefits, and services as one of its six priority areas.

Parental education: beyond generic advice

The majority of online resources for parents offer lists of best practices: setting limits, encouraging dialogue, fostering autonomy. These principles are valid, but their application varies radically depending on the family configuration.

A single parent working irregular hours does not establish the same rituals as a couple where one partner is part-time. The socio-economic context determines educational practices more than theoretical knowledge of principles.

Three concrete levers that make a measurable difference

  • The regularity of screen-free shared times (meals, commutes, manual activities) matters more than their duration. A few minutes of attentive presence daily create a framework of emotional security that hours of distracted co-presence cannot replace.
  • Consistency among reference adults (parents, grandparents, childcare providers, teachers) reduces the child’s anxiety. When rules diverge significantly from one place to another, the child expends energy decoding expectations rather than exploring.
  • Access to spaces for dialogue among parents (associative groups, parent cafes in schools, informal networks) helps break decision-making isolation. The Childhood Council recommends supporting associations and local projects that contribute to these collective dynamics.

Group of parents gathered in discussion in a community park, illustrating parental support and sharing educational advice

Child development and place in society: a worrying decline

The HCFEA identifies a phenomenon rarely addressed in parenting guides: the decline of children’s presence in public and social spaces. Children are becoming less visible in collective living spaces (transport, shops, cultural venues), which impoverishes intergenerational interactions.

This decline is accompanied by increased parental accountability. When a child misbehaves in a public place, it is parental competence that is called into question, not the lack of collective tolerance. This social pressure pushes some families to limit their outings, reinforcing isolation.

Commercialization of parental anxiety

The HCFEA also points to a growing commercialization of parenting support, particularly around school life. Tutoring, parental coaching, behavioral tracking apps: these offerings thrive on anxiety without guarantees of quality or oversight. They deepen inequalities between families who can pay and those who cannot access them.

The available data do not allow for conclusions about the actual effectiveness of these commercial services compared to free public or associative systems. The lack of independent evaluation remains a blind spot in parenting support policies.

Supporting parents is not limited to distributing educational advice. The stability of public aid, the quality of the regulatory framework on screens, the place given to children in collective life, and the fight against the commercialization of parental anxiety form an inseparable whole. It is on these four simultaneous fronts that the ability of families to fulfill their role under viable conditions is at stake.

Essential Tips for Supporting Parents in Child Education and Well-Being